I've decided. I'm just not going yet.
“Sometimes the right answer is the right answer at the wrong time.”
J
@jay_33
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Placeholder body. The space between deciding on surgery and scheduling it. Financial planning, work timing, telling a partner. Why the wait isn't avoidance — it's preparation.
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Pre-op
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I'd told myself I was calm. Then Tuesday came.
Researching
I consulted with five surgeons. The one I picked was fourth.
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